Choosing the Session to Reignite Your Fire!

So you’ve found my site, you love my photos and the words I use to describe my approach to sex and the services I offer; you’re close to making contact but you’re confused or undecided about which service you want. Let me try to help.

 

Being uncertain about which service to try for a first booking is probably the question I am asked the most and, much as I hate to answer a question with a question, it does very much depend on what you are looking for. So close your eyes, feel into your body and ask yourself:  “What do I really want to experience?”

And/or, “What desires are currently unmet in my life which I’d like Anabelle to help me fulfil?”

 

Many people with busy, demanding lives want to lie back and receive. I know when I am not working this is what I most want! Others want to take control from the start and experience real pleasure and turn on from watching and playing with my pleasure and turn on. If you’re in the latter group, you will not get what you want from an Adonis, Ra or Apollo massage.

 

Adonis and Apollo are both classic tantric massages in which you receive touch from me, but not vice versa. During both, you will experience your sexual energy in an expanded way, but you will not experience my sexual energy – she stays under wraps when I give either an Adonis or Apollo massage. In a Ra massage, you are both blindfolded and restrained, so my energy is even further removed from your experience.

 

Musubi, my body to body massage, is a more interactive massage than Adonis, Apollo or Ra. I use my body to activate and move sexual energy around your body and admit to getting quite turned on in the process (you try grinding your pubic mound into someone’s sacrum without feeling turned on!)

 

Musubi is the massage to book if you want a sensual, erotic experience which gets hot and steamy but doesn’t become full penetrative sex. Adonis and Apollo are for people who want to connect with energy within their bodies and to be helped to play with it for an extended period of time. Musubi is for someone who wants to feel  and interact with another body.

 

Then Kama. Kama is my “girlfriend experience” – nuanced sex industry speak for full sex (including penetration). It is supposedly all the good parts of having a girlfriend without any of the bad parts! My answer to people when they ask what is included in Kama is again a bit annoying. I don’t guarantee anything nor do I have a ban on anything. Sex is an experience between two (or more) people: their bodies, energies, emotions, minds, souls. Every single sexual experience is a unique moment in time because we are constantly changing and thus are different every single day.

 

I think the difference between the authentic experience I offer and the forced or fake experience that leaves one feeling empty (both ball sack empty and soul empty) is that I never, ever fake anything – ever. If I were to, say,  list “anal” as one of my list of DOs but then not feel like it on a particular day – for whatever reason – I would still feel pressured to do it and would then have to fake my pleasure leading to an exploitative and empty experience for both of us. So instead I answer, that nothing is guaranteed but nothing is off the table. I am genuinely very, very sexual. I enjoy being pleasured and I am a rewarding lover, I will very happily go wherever the energy flows.

 

I have had the most amazing, incredible, beautiful, indescribable sex with hundreds of clients over the years. Every single session has been unique and I have pretty much experienced everything. The younger me would probably condemn me as a tart, the older me celebrates that my soul has seriously got to live this human experience! I mean why else incarnate into a highly sexual body?!

 

For a successful Kama session my client does need to arrive with a certain level of confidence, charm or assurance. Kama is not the session to book if you are shy, uncertain or know you lack confidence. During a straight Kama session I see myself as a blank canvas for my client to paint his (or her) picture on. Or, if you like, a musical instrument that he (or she) plays his (her) tune on. Skilled lovers play my body incredibly and have an amazing time. Unskilled clients make the mistake of undressing themselves, lying down and telling me to “Show me what you’ve got.” They receive a massage at a Kama rate – don’t be one of them!

 

If you crave sexual interaction with me (which I would if I wasn’t me!) but you lack the confidence, skills, experience or assurance to arrive and seduce me, I offer a Musubi/Kama session that is perfect for you. The session begins with Musubi massage and only after our bodies have relaxed and our energies have intertwined does it flow naturally into a more sexual session.

 

Almost all of my sessions are incredible. The only ones that have not been are either massages in which the client has not respected my boundaries and tried to have sex with me (and earned the kind of ticking off that shrivels erections) or a Kama session like the one described above when a client arrives and expects me to please him. That is just not the dynamic that leads to great sex. It may work in porn, but it doesn’t work in real life. Above all, I am a real woman who loves real sex. Please don’t book me to be your porn star –  I think AI will help you create her!