Couples Escort Hampshire and Surrey
For couples who would like to expand their repertoire and explore the boundaries of their sexuality a little.
A Kind & Considerate Female Escort for Hampshire Couples
I am frequently asked to work with couples, the specifics vary, but the theme is always the same: they are looking to expand their repertoire and explore their sexuality a bit.
Sometimes they reach out to me as a vitamin pill (they have a healthy sex life and want to keep it so).
Sometimes they are looking for a painkiller (they are hurting and want someone to help heal them). I am more than happy to help.
Every time I receive an enquiry from a couple I feel incredibly honoured to have them reach out to me.
Sexy Sensual Escort Perfect for Couples in Hampshire
Sometimes a couple will find me because they have a loving relationship but they want to experience a wider variety of sexual flavours, they have got stuck in a rut or have specific fears they want to overcome. So they approach me with a list of questions, for example:
Please teach me
How to give a blowjob, How to please his cock with my hands
How can I give her a vaginal orgasm? Help me find her G spot, Help me find her Cervix
Help me find her Clitoris, How can I help her ejaculate
Where is his P spot? How do I pleasure him here?
We only have sex in a few positions, can you help broaden our repertoire?
We are quite awkward and shy sexually, can you help grow our confidence?
(Anything not on the list? Ask anyway!!)
Some people find these answers readily on the internet (there are some very good YouTube channels explaining all of the above) or in books (see my recommended book list below) and others really want to invest in being shown in person. There is something very safe about exploring your sexuality together with an expert. It is not for everyone! But for the people it IS for, then that is a service I am delighted to offer.
Other couples want to experience a tantric threesome and I am a safe pair of hands for them to explore this with. There are safe boundaries when you work with a professional; I hold the space to enable both people to feel safe as they explore new aspects of their individual sexuality and their combined sexual dynamic. I am very mindful of the importance of group sex being pleasurable for all concerned. I wouldn’t want to share my man with another woman only to watch him lose himself in her and forget about me, so I don’t allow that to happen when I work with a couple. I am well aware that I am the third party; you have paid me the honour of inviting me to join you two, I am there to enhance YOUR sexual connection and make you both feel amazing.
Because it is so important for me to ensure that both parties have a beautiful experience, I do ask to have contact with both of you ahead of any booking, I have been in the uncomfortable position of being used by one person at the expense of their partner, and as I get more experienced I am very careful to make sure I am not used in this way.
Anabelle – The painkiller
Having said that, I believe it is very rare for either a man or a woman to seek to hurt or upset their partner, I think the pain and hurt we undoubtedly do to each other is much more by accident than it is by design. In a world that is a bit confused about how to handle adult sexuality (and that’s putting it mildly!), it can be very challenging to navigate our sexual journeys in an open, honest, kind and sensitive way. I believe that people are largely just desperate for more intimate connection and sexy play and most pain or upset in our sexual relationships (within ourselves and with each other) comes about because of negative social conditioning, repression of desire (thanks to said conditioning), sexual ignorance and lack of honest talk. It seems to me that we are getting better and better at talking about some really tricky topics with our partners, but when it comes to sex, tragically we stay mum.
Sometimes couples who are stuck in their sex lives stumble across me, often because one of them starts to look outside of the couple for help. I would implore their partner to suspend judgement and instead be grateful to have someone kind, loving and curious in their lives (I mean your partner, not me! though I do match that description!!) I would invite you to allow the discovery of me to be the beginning of a whole new adventure together.
Many of my clients come to me after they have tried more “acceptable” or traditional routes to solve their problems and the reason why they are still looking is because the people they turn to (doctors, therapists, counsellors) don’t specialise in sex and can’t help. I do know about sex and I can help! I really know my stuff, I know it because like all good specialists, I do this day in day out. It is one of the many tragedies of our patriarchal society that women like me, who are highly skilled in our craft, still find ourselves working in the shadows. In ancient times we were highly regarded “Temple Goddesses” who “took war out of men”. That is what I do, day in – day out and when I work with a couple in pain I equip them with the skills to “take war” out of each other. I am a sexual healer. And I can teach you how to heal together.
Some areas in which I have been really beneficial to couples:
Low sexual desire (for either party)
Porn addiction (which often leads to one or both of the above)
Fear of sex, linked to trauma.